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He's Just Not That Into You 2009

★ 6.64,004 votes129 min📅 2009-02-06

"Are you the exception... or are you the rule?"

Directed by Ken Kwapis, *He's Just Not That Into You* (2009) weaves together six interconnected love stories in Baltimore, each exploring the universal yet achingly personal theme of modern romance gone awry.

Director: Ken Kwapis

Cast

Ginnifer Goodwin
Ginnifer Goodwin
Gigi Phillips
Justin Long
Justin Long
Alex
Jennifer Aniston
Jennifer Aniston
Beth Murphy
Ben Affleck
Ben Affleck
Neil
Jennifer Connelly
Jennifer Connelly
Janine Gunders
Bradley Cooper
Bradley Cooper
Ben Gunders
Scarlett Johansson
Scarlett Johansson
Anna Marks
Drew Barrymore
Drew Barrymore
Mary Harris
Kevin Connolly
Kevin Connolly
Conor Barry
Cory Hardrict
Cory Hardrict
Tyrone

Frequently Asked Questions

What is He's Just Not That Into You (2009) about?

This ensemble rom-com dives into the misadventures of six Baltimore locals navigating the ups and downs of dating, commitment, and unrequited expectations. From unanswered calls to stalled proposals, the film peels back the layers on what it really means to be 'just not that into you'.

Who directed He's Just Not That Into You?

The film was directed by Ken Kwapis, known for his work on both sitcoms and feature films, who brings a deft balance of humor and heart to the rom-com genre.

Who stars in He's Just Not That Into You?

The cast features Jennifer Aniston, Ben Affleck, Jennifer Connelly, Ginnifer Goodwin, Bradley Cooper, and Justin Long in a showcase of romantic lead performances.

Is He's Just Not That Into You (2009) worth watching?

With its sharp script, talented cast, and relatable themes, *He's Just Not That Into You* delivers a rom-com that's both entertaining and thought-provoking. It's a solid pick for fans of ensemble-driven relationship dramas with a comedic edge.

How long is He's Just Not That Into You?

The runtime is 129 minutes, or just over two hours—long enough for a thorough rom-com experience.

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About He's Just Not That Into You (2009) — A Rom-Com That Calls Out Dating Delusions

Directed by Ken Kwapis, *He's Just Not That Into You* (2009) weaves together six interconnected love stories in Baltimore, each exploring the universal yet achingly personal theme of modern romance gone awry. The film blends sharp comedy with tender drama, capturing the awkward pauses, unspoken tensions, and heartbreaking miscommunications that define dating in the digital age. With a stellar ensemble cast—led by Jennifer Aniston, Ben Affleck, Jennifer Connelly, Ginnifer Goodwin, Bradley Cooper, and Justin Long—the story follows characters as they grapple with unanswered texts, stalled commitments, and the painful realization that attraction doesn't always translate to investment. The atmosphere oscillates between laugh-out-loud moments and quiet vulnerability, painting a refreshingly honest portrait of love's many contradictions.

At its core, the film asks whether hope is just another form of denial when it comes to relationships. Gigi and Alex, Beth and Neil, and Janine and her husband each confront the tough question: Are we exceptions—or merely statistics in a world where emotional availability is the rarest currency? With witty dialogue, relatable scenarios, and a touch of bittersweet realism, *He's Just Not That Into You* (2009) serves as both a mirror and a mirror ball, reflecting the messy, beautiful chaos of finding (or losing) someone who's truly into you.