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Ob ihr wollt oder nicht 2009

★ 4.33 votes📅 2009-12-09

In *Ob ihr wollt oder nicht* (2009), director Ben Verbong crafts a poignant drama-comedy that dives deep into family dynamics when Laura, a young woman battling advanced cancer, abruptly returns home—rejecting chemotherapy and leaving her marriage behind.

Director: Ben Verbong

Cast

Christiane Paul
Christiane Paul
Susa
Senta Berger
Senta Berger
Dorothea
Katharina M. Schubert
Katharina M. Schubert
Laura
Anna Böger
Anna Böger
Coco
Jan-Gregor Kremp
Jan-Gregor Kremp
Peter
Julia-Maria Köhler
Julia-Maria Köhler
Toni Brühl
Jan Decleir
Jan Decleir
Henning Brühl
Mark Waschke
Mark Waschke
Paul
Kilian Schüler
Zach
Nina Siebertz
Ada

Frequently Asked Questions

What is Ob ihr wollt oder nicht (2009) about?

The film follows Laura, a young woman with terminal cancer who returns home to her family after abandoning chemotherapy and her marriage. Her arrival forces her three sisters and parents to confront old wounds as they grapple with her prognosis and the secrets they've kept for years.

Who directed Ob ihr wollt oder nicht?

Ben Verbong directed *Ob ihr wollt oder nicht*, known for his emotionally layered dramas that explore family and societal dilemmas.

Who stars in Ob ihr wollt oder nicht?

The film features Christiane Paul as Laura, with standout performances from Senta Berger, Katharina M. Schubert, Anna Böger, and Jan-Gregor Kremp.

Is Ob ihr wollt oder nicht (2009) worth watching?

Though not widely rated, *Ob ihr wollt oder nicht* offers a compelling blend of drama and dark comedy, with strong performances that elevate its exploration of family bonds. Fans of character-driven films will find its themes resonant and its atmosphere immersive.

How long is Ob ihr wollt oder nicht?

Runtime details are not listed.

About Ob ihr wollt oder nicht (2009) — A Family's Reckoning with Love and Loss

In *Ob ihr wollt oder nicht* (2009), director Ben Verbong crafts a poignant drama-comedy that dives deep into family dynamics when Laura, a young woman battling advanced cancer, abruptly returns home—rejecting chemotherapy and leaving her marriage behind. Her sudden arrival forces the four estranged adult daughters to reunite under one roof for the first time in six years, reigniting long-buried conflicts as the gravity of her illness sets in. Verbong's sensitive direction balances raw emotional intensity with subtle humor, painting a portrait of love, resentment, and reconciliation against the backdrop of mortality.

Christiane Paul anchors the ensemble as the spirited yet vulnerable Laura, with Senta Berger and Katharina M. Schubert delivering standout performances as the worried mother and a conflicted sister, respectively. The film's themes of familial obligation and personal choice unfold in a claustrophobic setting, where every shared meal and whispered argument feels charged with unspoken history. Atmospherically, *Ob ihr wollt oder nicht* oscillates between tenderness and tension, offering a cathartic exploration of what it means to face the end together—or apart.